| Behave in a way that others will be willing to work with
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"Hi!"
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"Sorry, I forgot your name. What is it?"
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Share materials as needed.
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Pull your share of the load.
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| Use positive body language |
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Smile!
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Face toward the other group members.
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Sit up and lean toward the group.
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Look at the person who is talking. Don't make him feel left out.
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| Listen |
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Seek to understand others' ideas.
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"What do you think?"
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"Why do you believe that?"
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"How does that sound to you?"
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Don't boss or monopolize.
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| Use positive responses |
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"Thank you."
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"Let's try that."
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"That's interesting."
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| Be helpful |
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Contribute ideas.
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"Would you like some help?"
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"How can I help you?"
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"I have an idea. Would you like to hear it?"
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"Can everyone see this?"
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Disagree in a respectful way
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Reject ideas, not people. No put-downs.
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"I'd rather not do that. Can we try another idea?"
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"Sorry, I don't agree with that plan. How about..."
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"I'm not sure that would work. What if we..."
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"Okay, let's consider that. And here's another idea to think about."
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Stay on task |
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It's not a social hour, but time for work.
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Your behavior affects the group.
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"Joe-Bob, please help."
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"Where were we?"
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"What should we do now?"
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"What's our next step?"
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"Let's get going on this."
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